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reached out to The Haven’s Helpline services through a friend. Originally from Pakistan, I had only been in the UK for about four months. I arrived on a two-year spousal visa, which clearly stated that I had no recourse to public funds. My first language is Punjabi.

I desperately needed urgent accommodation due to the abuse I was suffering from my husband. I had fled from his property where we lived with his in-laws, taking only my passport with me. I feared for my life but had nowhere to stay. My friend who contacted The Haven for me was known to my husband’s family, so it wasn’t safe for me to stay with them.

I disclosed that I had been subjected to verbal and physical abuse from my husband and in-laws. My husband was also sexually abusive and he raped me on numerous occasions.

The Haven worked closely with me, and my application for a destitution domestic violence concession was accepted. I received weekly welfare payments from The Haven, and they supported me with my application for benefits. My benefits were then instated, and they were also able to support my application for Leave to Remain, housing, a bank account, and a claim for Universal Credit.

My application for Indefinite Leave to Remain was successful, meaning I could stay in the UK permanently. The support staff helped me open a new bank account and register with a local GP. I disclosed that I was feeling low and was offered counselling. I completed all my counselling sessions and was encouraged to attend ESOL classes to improve my English so I could communicate better with my peers and staff.

Ultimately, the staff at The Haven supported me in finding refuge accommodation outside of Wolverhampton. I was happy to move out and stated that this could be a new beginning for me.

During my time in the refuge, I gained a lot of self-esteem and confidence. For the first time, I felt that I was actually in control of my life and could make my own decisions. I was excited about being able to live an independent life and thrive within a new community.

Amreen’s name has been changed to protect her identity. Images are for illustration purposes only.