What is Domestic Abuse?
This also includes sexual violence or abuse, financial, emotional and physical abuse. Domestic abuse can be by your partner, ex-partner, family member, extended family or your children.
Patterns of Domestic Abuse
- Track you all the time?
- Discourage your relationship with family and friends?
- Prevent you from working or enjoying outside activities?
- Appear to anger easily?
- Force you to do something you do not want to do
(i.e. participate in sexual activities you are uncomfortable with or commit a crime)?
- Threaten to hurt you, your children or pets?
- Destroy personal property or sentimental items?
- Use or threaten to use a weapon against you
- Humiliate you in front of others?
- Criticise everything you do?
- You make excuses for their behaviour
(i.e. saying it’s due to alcohol, drugs, stress, work or they were ‘just joking’)
Rape & Sexual Assault
Other forms of sexual assault that people are often less aware of include female genital mutilation, sexual exploitation and sexual harassment.
A significant number of women that we support have experienced rape and sexual violence and we work with these survivors, enabling them to regain confidence, independence and control over their own lives. We do this through having trained staff and an experienced specialist worker called and ISVA (independent sexual violence advocate).
Sexual comments or jokes physical behaviour, including unwelcome sexual advances, touching and various forms of sexual assault, displaying pictures, photos or drawings of a sexual nature, sending emails with a sexual content.
Other harmful practices
Female Genital Mutilation
Breast Flattening or Breast Ironing
So Called ‘Honour-Based’ Violence
‘Honour-Based’ Violence can be described as a collection of practices, which are used to control behaviour within families or other social groups to protect perceived cultural and religious beliefs and/or honour. ‘Honour-Based’ Violence and abuse can take many forms, e.g. threatening behaviour, assault, rape, kidnap, abduction, forced abortion, threats to kill and false imprisonment committed due to so called ‘honour’. Murders in the name of so-called honour, (often called honour killings) are murders in which predominantly women are killed for actual or perceived immoral behaviour which is believed to have brought shame on the family.
We are proud to be part of the ‘Our Girl’ campaign alongside other specialist women’s organisations to raise awareness of this issue. See Our Girl Website for further information.