Rebecca’s Story

Rebecca’s Story

I contacted The Haven after being subjected to abuse for 13 years. I was in a relationship with someone who was very controlling and I was subjected to emotional, psychological, and physical abuse too.  I’d ended the relationship about a year ago at the time, and was...
Aoife’s Story

Aoife’s Story

B efore coming into the refuge I lived with my mother and young daughter. I had ended the relationship with my daughter’s father and moved in with my mum due to the abuse and violence I suffered from him. I now feel really sad to say that I suffered verbal, emotional...
Tinu’s Story

Tinu’s Story

I fled Nigeria after my parents were kidnapped and murdered. Fearing for my life, I left my three-month-old with my aunt and made the journey to England. It was not an easy decision, and I still don’t know where the courage came from but every step of the way I told...
Adanna’s Story

Adanna’s Story

I was born in a country on the west of Africa and was introduced to my now ex-husband – the perpetrator – as soon as I left school.  His family was happy for us to be married, as his family believed I could provide lots of children. I was 10 years younger than...